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Guest Posts {22} ~ Nano Thoughts {4}

~This is a guest post from Vishnupria ~ https://vishnupria.wordpress.com

bombardment of cell signal for a hurting partner,

joins the nuclei of the membrane by lever,

sensory trapped inside the inner core,

beg for the release of monster roar,

vigorous tests endured its gear,

hmm gestures never ending fear,

at last cost an arm and leg to clear you

unannounced and unbearable pain!

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Guest Posts {21} ~ Nano Thoughts {3}

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The scars from experiences get imprinted,

After several tries hopes are shredded,

With wet eyes oppress the unopposed,

No amount of chances is spared,

Melancholy abdicates the bold,

Neither perjury nor the indictment imposed,

But blame the wuss of nomad,

Here I am a scion of the mortal world!

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Guest Posts {20} ~ Nano Thoughts {2}

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The virtue of life plays sound with a cacophony of immaturity,

Forever illumines glitter of the lord and remain silence on its purity,

Sleepless tosses and turns underground where inner reaction fears the insecurity,

Hail an active observer on the ground by escaping the phony posterity,

Thus, gloats the macro cosmic vitality!

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Guest Posts {18} ~ Nano Thoughts {1}

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The oasis of dreams scuttles the mind vastness,

Holds the primordial cup for vacuuming the holy mess,

So true hushed morality and follows the devils perils,

Here am awakened with a bundle of hurdles,

With complying nodes the inner surreal,

Plays the unrequited seer!

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Guest Posts {17} ~ Unspoken Words

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Letters flowing like a river, words grasping from its silver.

Sentences urging for a line, context flashing like a sign.

Paragraphs rising in the number, stoned or not with lumber.

Thoughts dancing like a star, thus stays between the spar.

Commands to ink in bold, a talk worth as gold.

“Hence the unspoken words”

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Guest Posts {16} ~ Nano Rambling

This is a guest post from Vishnupria ~ https://vishnupria.wordpress.com

Life has ups and downs,

Quest for varied crowns,

Scaremongers from edgy sounds,

Befriends the irresistible hounds,

oh my replaceable wounds kick the inner clowns!

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Guest Posts {15} ~ Songbird Of The Morning

This is a guest post from Tino ~ https://spacewalker314.wordpress.com

Songbird of the morning,
A brittle beak, a beak broken,
Its victories remain unspoken,

What glory is there in bragging?
For we still know the lyrics
Written in the morning sky,

It sits at our window,
Singing its verse for the day,
And worms crawl to the surface,
Lured by tunes of old;
A chorus echoed before man
Dragged its feet in the mud.

So the day goes on to another
Because the song remains ever-familiar
To the ears of a vengeful god,
Delaying our wasting away,
Only until the song’s reprise
Grows old, becomes forgotten.
Only until the song’s reprise
Becomes old, grows forgotten.

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Guest Posts {14} ~ A Question Of Ethics

This is a guest post from Arnav ~ https://bookworm727642419.wordpress.com

Hey guys! In this post, I will try to answer or rather speak my mind out on a question that popped into my mind. A question of ethics.

“Aren’t humans animals, too? Well… Then all animals kill other animals for food! So why isn’t it justified if humans do it?”

Okay… I have been pondering quite a lot about it, and I think I can contradict it.

The very fact, that we have a conceiving, thinking, and processing capability greater than any other animal, makes us REALLY different.

A lion might kill its prey, but can it grow crops like humans? Can whales cultivate the ocean floor? No! But we can do it all, we humans can!

Nature offers us a choice, a gift of knowledge. We can either exploit other animals or save them. Humans have never been gentle. Greed always takes control. We can’t sustainably survive ever by eating animals and destroying ecosystems.

After 300,000 thousand years of our living on planet Earth, we still miss the point that all lives matter the same! When one can have such strong bonds and sentiments with one’s family members, why doesn’t one understand, that all species are children of mother Earth itself?

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And doesn’t the word ‘ethic’ mean differently to different entities? A lion’s ethic is to survive, keep up its pride! The very essence of the meaning of ethics kicks up a notch when we humans are in the frame.

Be sure to not get this idea in your head, that if we humans don’t eat meat, then there will be chickens, and goats overrunning the roads! They are bred and not caught from the wild! Nothing like that will ever happen.

We can consider acting like wild animals when the situation is really EXTREME. When we have no possibility other than starve. Killing animals otherwise, with our advanced brains, will be really foolish and hypocritical.

~Arnav Gupta

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Guest Posts {13} ~ Commitment Phobia

~This is a guest post from Anita ~ http://anitavij.com~

“I want a committed relationship, but I am afraid that I may get hurt.”

”Do you have commitment phobia”?
We have heard this phrase many times in our life. What does it mean when someone has commitment phobia?

To understand this, first we have to understand the meaning of commitment. The definition of a commitment is a promise or agreement to do something. An example of a commitment is marriage. Another example of commitment is going into business with someone.

Commitment is a dedication to a particular organization, cause, or belief, and a willingness to get involved.

If we talk about commitment in relationships, the main goal of commitment is for each party to feel some sense of security and control. When you are in a contract, you feel comfortable and have some expectations from your partner.

While doing business with a partner or working for an organization, you will need commitment, initiative and desire to succeed.

Commitment is a choice. If the thought of it gets you panicked, you have to introspect to understand why. Fear to commit is called commitment phobia. Commitment phobia can impact your ability to commit to anything, leave apart just relationships. It can include fear of deep friendship or reluctance to commit to a job or to your own financial wellbeing.

We have to look for the reasons behind commitment phobia. In relationships, this can be hidden in some childhood incident such as parent’s divorce or marital problems. It may also be some other past unsuccessful relationships that are still haunting one and stopping from making the commitment. So, the past experiences that instil a sense of fear or passive avoidance of ending up in an unsatisfying relationship can result in commitment phobia.

As dating and relationship expert and author Laura Bilotta explains, “commitment issues can stem from a number of experiences, including early childhood traumas and recent relationship history, and these commitment phobias can keep you from having happy and healthy relationships moving forward.”

Job commitment phobia or fear of committing to a working partner is another cause of suffering for many. It may be considered a form of social phobia or performance phobia.

Clinical psychologist Dr Abigael San agrees pointed out that although it’s not a diagnosable condition, commitment-phobia is definitely real: “There’s a scale, people have it to different extents,” she says.

Just to add humor to this serious subject, I would like to give an example from a Bollywood movie.

In Shuddh Desi Romance, Rishi Kapoor donning a dhoti and pagdi as a small-town wedding planner-cum-wedding bandowner asks the hero a simple question: “Tum ladke ladkiya Pehle Ek doosre ke peechhe bhagate ho, aur phir ek doosre se door bhagate ho. Main shaadi karwaoon toh kiski? (young boys and girls, you first run after each other and then run away from each other. Who will I help get married?)” The hero Raghu, a Jaipur tourist guide replies with a straight face: “Marriages are passe. Look for other business options.” The conversation pretty much sums up the mood of a new generation that seems increasingly reluctant about steady commitment in relationships, particularly marriage.😇😇

For most people relationships come naturally to life as breathing or making a meal. But for some, however, relationships are not that easy. People with commitment issues, commitment phobia or relationship anxiety generally have a serious problem staying in a relationship or a job for substantially long periods of time. While they can feel love like anyone else, the feeling of losing their partner drives anxiety in them and the hesitation to commit sets in.

What can be done about commitment issues:

Let’s explore ways of dealing with it effectively.

Like most emotional and psychological struggles, there is no “quick fix” or “cure” for intense relationship anxiety or commitment phobia. By exploring your personal experiences, beliefs, fears, and wants/needs you can open yourself up to the possibility of a change. Learning to understand these areas about yourself and your life helps to re-frame or shift your mindset to build a healthier future deeply set in emotions, connection, and relationships.

First of all, you have to find the root cause of this phobia. Introspect and you may spot the cause, perhaps set in a previous life experience, which is stopping you from committing.

If you happen to find the cause, know that bad experiences are a part of life. If you experienced trauma or torture in the past, it’s hard, however, it’s not the end of the life. Give yourself another chance, life may throw pleasant surprises at you and it all may come back on track.

Everyone does face failures and unwanted situations in life, some more than others. However, giving life another shot is a choice we must all make.

Some tend to set the cause of their lack of commitment in experiences that they never encountered first-hand, but their near- and dear ones did. If you have seen your friend or relative being cheated by a business partner, that doesn’t mean that the same will happen to you too. The same applies to a romantic relationship or other forms of commitments. Don’t hesitate to pursue opportunities to commit in your life just because some others around you encountered unfortunate negative experiences.

If you just went through a breakup, be it a marriage or a business partnership, take a break and give it some time to heal. Time is the biggest healer.

Don’t hesitate to seek professional help. Many people face difficult situations in their life and professional counselling and assistance goes a long way in recovery. Think deeply about this option and discuss with those around you who deeply care for your wellbeing.

I love this quote by Neil Strauss,” Without commitment, you cannot have depth in anything, whether it’s a relationship, or business or a hobby.”

Commitment is the price one pays for the longevity of relationships, and after all, when it all works out, it’s a price well worth it.

I wish your commitments find their anchor and bring the best to your well-deserving lives!!

None of the blogs or opinions expressed within is meant as advice to you or anybody else on any matter, including but not limited to, personal finance, health, or other matters of life. If you need advice, speak to a professional!

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